Why Embracing the Mundane Is Sexy
(whether you have a lover or not)

Every day contains so many mundane moments, mundane tasks, and mundane
highjackings (the unexpected and unglamorous must-do errands and sidetrips).

When you're not friends with the mundane,

  • life seems to offer a series of nuisnces and irritations
  • you cultivate dissatisfaction
  • you live with So What and Is this it?
  • you get bored and you get boring

This is not sexy.

When you make friends with the mundane, when you embrace the mundane,

  • you will not miss the miracle of the bubbles in the dishwater
  • an organic orange will make small pleasure explosion in your mouth
  • you'll notice the blessing in the tooth brushing (you get to keep your teeth! you get to like being inside your own mouth!)
  • You'll experience how the cooking feeds you (in the process, not just the product)--fun with cutting and tearing, colors and textures, sizzling sounds, expansive aromas
  • you won't miss the glitter in the snow
  • you'll stop to smell roses, watch bugs, study tracks, see the view, count the geese, notice all the colors in the sky, the water, the eyes gazing back at you
  • you'll have many more conscious sensory experiences
  • you'll laugh more
  • your gratitude cup will run over (hot tea again! a cat on the keyboard! still more toilet paper coming off the spindle!)
  • you will open to the idea and practice of meeting every face as the face of God
  • you'll fall in love nonstop with bus drivers, clerks, cashiers, baristas, babies, teachers, neighbors, professionals of all kinds, and everyone you already love
  • you won't mind the spill to mop up, the unsaved work to retype, the unplanned task that takes up half the day
 

    How is this sexy?

  • more secret (and open) smiles will play across your face and shine in your eyes
  • you'll create intensity without drama
  • your magnetism will amplify
  • and if you show up like this for small wonders, for whatever and whoever shows up, fo whatever supports or derails you--think of how you'll show up for your lover . . .

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