Note that as a cisgender lesbian with a queer trans-son and a straight cisgender male son, I address my work to all human beings of any gender identification and sexual orientation. I honor the beauty of who you are and your essential loving nature. You get to love and be loved, exactly as you are.

If you’re thinking about dating and dread it …
If you’ve been at it in a way that feels more bad than good …
If you’re in the early stages of something and would like to show up in a radical new way …
If you’re interested in getting to a love that looks more like real love than codependent, control-oriented, misery-making bullshit …
If you’re tired of falling in love with potential, using dating as a makeover project on another human being, or being on the receiving end of that …
If you're a human being over 16 years of age and not yet dead, and you'd like to consider the topic of dating through some new, liberating, empowering lenses ...

This program is most certainly for you.

To get more information on making dating a grand experiment & to purchase the program (or get it for free if need be), click here.

In this program, I’ll share with you several ways to set up a grand experiment in your dating life so that both dating and the early phase of relationship feel like good adventures. Date to activate your curiosity and sense of fun, not your fears and insecurities. I’ll give you
  • clear premises for running your experiment
  • tools for running the experiment smoothly
  • stories from my own experiment

    Fill in your email address and I'll send you the pdf that lays out premises for a grand experiment in dating.

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If you're dating to experiment, to explore, you get to have more ease and more fun. You don't have to know anything or get anything right. I'll invite you in this program to take total responsibility for yourself and to tend the lifelong relationship between you and you—that way you won't put people you date in charge of taking care of you (of your comfort or emotional well-being) and you won't fall into taking care of them. Dating as a makeover project is a drag. Dating as an experiment allows you to discover stuff you haven't experienced before from a playful, curious place of not knowing.