This program supports you to date consciously or begin a new *thing* with ease, joy, clarity, and from a stance of exploration & curiosity.
Here, learn about & purchase the program (or get it for free for the asking).

Note that as a cisgender lesbian with a queer trans-son and a straight cisgender male son, I address my work to all human beings of any gender identification and sexual orientation. I honor the beauty of who you are and your essential loving nature. You get to love and be loved, exactly as you are.


Right NOW

Start with 2 existing audios
with premises laid out, explained, and illustrated with stories. Enjoy other voices: There's some rich Q-and-A with & great comments from participants who were present during the taping.

The first audio comes with a pdf so that you see the premises for the grand experiment laid out in writing. (You can freely access the pdf that lays out the premises for the grand experiment in dating right here right now.)
See information below on variable pricing for this program.


Future
I'll be doing further programs on certain themes and Q-and-A on anything you want to ask about. Questions may be sent ahead (jaya@jayathetrustcoach.com). Stay tuned!

The programs are always given by Zoom video conference (visibility is optional—you choose your setting). Then, audio replay goes out within 48 hours each time to all who sign up in advance. (You can also purchase it after the fact.)


Pricing Structure
This type of program allows me to charge much less than I do for my one-on-one coaching, and even offer it for free to those who can't pay. That said, I spend hours on this and appreciate being paid (even small amounts) by those who benefit.

The PayPal button below offers a few price points. If you're able, please pay at least $22 for the existing materials (described above under Right NOW) to be delivered to you; you can pay more or less than that.

If you want to pay $0, simply write me (jaya@jayathetrustcoach.com) or use the contact form below to ask for the program for free. I need no explanations.

If you want to pay me a custom amount, simply send payment via PayPal to my email address (jaya@jayathetrustcoach.com). You'll be prompted to MARK THAT IT'S FOR A SERVICE please do use that category, not the one for paying family and friends. (This keeps me legit.) Or send me a check. Simple instructions are on my contact page.

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Make sure the email you want me to send to is the one linked to your PayPal account, or let me know your preference by email or by using the contact form to the left.

See drop-down menu below. Note that the little blue arrow to click on is sometimes obstructed by the USD part. (Aw, PayPal. Will you please fix this??)
Pay $11-55
The sample-content video above treats the idea of being the see-er, not the seen. This can serve you in any realm of life, and it's particularly brilliant applied to dating. Wherever you use it, it increases your personal power, keeps you connected to yourself, and makes everything easier and more fun.
More stuff to read & see below. Scroll all the way down: bottom left.

If you’re thinking about dating and dread it …
If you’ve been at it in a way that feels more bad than good …
If you’re in the early stages of something and would like to show up in a radical new way …
If you’re interested in getting to a love that looks more like real love than codependent, control-oriented, misery-making bullshit …
If you’re tired of falling in love with potential, using dating as a makeover project on another human being, or being on the receiving end of that …
If you're a human being over 16 years of age and not yet dead, and you'd like to consider the topic of dating through some new, liberating, empowering lenses ...

This program is most certainly for you.

Sign up and/or send your single friends to this page if you’ve ever liked my approach to anything. This aligns with what I’ve been up to for years, and it’s current, fresh, alive—all stuff I'm excited about, living, and supporting clients to apply. It's likely to bolster your hopefulness and confidence and support you to show up with the best you’ve got and have fun while you’re at it. It's spiritual, grounded, practical, clear, no bullshit. I promise you no outcomes. I will almost certainly send you away feeling better about this whole dating thing.
In this program, I’ll share with you several ways to set up a grand experiment in your dating life so that both dating and the early phase of relationship feel like good adventures. Date to activate your curiosity and sense of fun, not your fears and insecurities. I’ll give you

  • clear premises for running your experiment
  • tools for running the experiment smoothly
  • stories from my own experiment
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